The 3-3-3 Rule of Adoption

Every pet is unique, and some may take more or less time to adapt. Still, these milestones can help you set realistic expectations and support your furry friend through the transition.

3 days: overwhelm and adjustment

In the first few days, your new pet is often confused or overwhelmed. They may:

• Hide in quiet places like under the bed or behind furniture.
• Refuse food or treats.
• Sleep a lot or seem unusually tired.
• Test boundaries or appear anxious.

This reaction is completely normal. Everything, from the smells and sounds to the people and routines, is new to them.

How you can help: Provide a calm, predictable space where they can decompress. Avoid too many visitors or new experiences. Let them come to you at their own pace, and focus on gentle reassurance instead of forcing interaction.

3 weeks: learning and settling in

By now, your pet is beginning to recognize your routine and understand that they are safe. Their true personality starts to shine through! They may become more playful, curious, or affectionate, or begin testing boundaries to see what's allowed.

How you can help: Keep routines consistent. Introduce basic training or litter box reminders through positive reinforcement: praise, treats, and patience. This stage is also when minor behaviour issues might appear, so stay calm and consistent as your pet learns what life in your home is all about.

3 months: trust and connection

After about three months, most pets begin to feel fully at home. They've learned your household rhythms, built trust, and formed a bond with you. Their confidence grows, and they start to explore their world more freely.

How you can help: Continue offering love, enrichment, and training. Explore new activities together: walks, games, or quiet cuddles. Maintain their routine while giving them opportunities to learn and thrive. You'll now see the genuine personality of the companion you welcomed into your life.